So my sons nearly ten weeks and apart from feeling quite anxious I think me and my husband are doing well with him. He has a kind of feeding routine. I take him out for a walk every day. He is getting a bit of ‘tummy time’ and I’ve registered him with children’s centre so hope to take him to music groups when he’s a bit bigger. So we haven’t taken him out anywhere ‘proper’ yet as we were waiting for jabs and warmer weather and just building our confidence really.
Anyway my in laws insist on visiting every week. They’d b here every day if they could. I don’t have an issue with that but they are judging everything we do and I just can’t relax or enjoy them being here. They come round, tell us everything we should be doing, start tidying up stuff that we haven’t asked them to do. Helpful yes, but sometimes they walk round like it’s their house. Then my mother in law calls all the time telling my husband all the things we should b doing, not letting him cry enough?! Letting him stay in his basket too much, not going out enough, just everything really. He then feels stressed and tells me which makes me feel so upset that they are judging everything we do. Not sure how much more I can put up with it. It’s always been this way with us buying a house, our wedding, but it just feels too much. Anyone know how to handle intense in-laws who think you’re doing everything wrong?!