I have one dc (9 years) and dp and I have one dc together(3 years)
Dp and i have been together 5 years and hope to start trying for dc3 (his dc2)
Now we have set a date to start trying I am a little nervous.
We miscarried a baby before we had our dc together, so when we got pregnant it was the most wonderful moment for us all. I had no doubts whatsoever about wanting this baby.
Now I desperately want a third -and our last- but I am for some reason a little nervous and I am not sure why.
We are all so happy right now.
What if the stress is too much for everyone?
What if we lose another baby? I'm not sure I could go through that again.
I had pnd with my first- abusive relationship. But I was so happy and healthy mentally with my second.
But there is a chance of pnd again I think if you have had it before.
It is a small doubt about this decision but it is still there.
Is this normal when talking about having another child?
Is there a great difference from going from 2dc to 3dc?