Hi everyone just wondering if I can have all women’s opinions that are parents.
Basically I live with my mil, my partner and my baby atm. My mil is always interfering when it comes to my 6 month old son and never got anything nice to say about me to anyone, it’s either she knows best or it’s not right and disagrees, she thinks I’m raising my son wrong she’ll go to her daughter and say she’s concerned about his feeding rather than come to me, she’s told her that I starv my baby all afternoon then fill him right up at at teatime which is totally wrong she works nights so she is in bed most afternoons so she doesn’t get see to see me feed him in the afternoon, my partner darent say anything to his mum because it might make things worse, I always make sure my sure my son his clean fed and changed and she knows this as she sees him everyday! She’s started to become a problem in mine and partners relationship but it’s tricky because we live under her roof. Now she’s bin having an opinion because I go out to bingo once a week on a Wednesday, I’m on about starting the gym a couple of times a week to loose abit of baby weight, and leave dad with baby when he finishes work. But I always make sure the teas done for when he comes home from work the bath is run babies fed and bathed, pots are washed and put away. Her opinion is that baby should be with me 24/7 because my partner works and I shouldn’t be allowed to go out and have an hour to myself hear and there. I always feel like I’m getting judges no matter what I do my opinions don’t matter it’s really getting to me and I don’t know how to make this better.
Please don’t comment if your Guna give negative opinions I don’t wanna hear it. I just wanna hear other sahm opinions on how to deal with it
Thanks