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Troubles with ex husband

6 replies

Em4891 · 12/01/2019 19:52

Evening everyone ,
I don’t know where to start really .
Over the last 6 months my ex of 10 years who was physically and verball abusive during our realationship has absolutely caused nothing but problems in relation to our daughter now .
Recently the police have finally told him he either stops harassing me and making threats or will be in severe trouble .
As he isn’t a reasonable man has called our 12 year old daughter and told her everything that he was at the police station etc but , fed her a lot of lies stating the police have now said he can’t see our daughter and it is all because of me getting him cautioned by police etc .
All of this is lies and nothing at all has been said about this at all.
Would you get in touch with the police again ?
As none of this has been said .
I have never stopped my daughter from seeing her dad or her family her dads side .
He has purely told her cruel and malicious lies .
My Daughter has said she knows we wouldn’t stop her seeing him but , I’m absolutely fuming over this .

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Fabaunt · 12/01/2019 19:53

Absolutely I would

Smellbellina · 12/01/2019 19:53

No I wouldn’t I would ignore him and concentrate on supporting your DD

GreenTulips · 12/01/2019 19:54

One of you has to break the cycle

You chose to be annoyed

Your daughter understands it’s him and not you

He’s goading you for a reaction - don’t give him one

Sarahjconnor · 12/01/2019 19:54

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Sarahjconnor · 12/01/2019 19:55

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Smellbellina · 12/01/2019 20:22

Thing is, he hasn’t contacted you, he has spoken to his daughter which presumably he hasn’t been told not to, you don’t like what he has said to your daughter and consider it to be lies. You can inform the police of this, it’s DV related, a record will be kept, but don’t expect them to do anything about it.

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