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dd room is an absolute tip...help...

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lavender1 · 31/08/2004 21:25

it started off dead tidy but inlast 4 weeks it's so messy, magazines, little bits, mags etc...I have been on at her for the last 4 weeks and it's still a tip...dh has threatned to throw soft toys the works in a bin ...any advice appreciated...(have had them all 6 weeks but am at a loose end...please don't berate me over this as much easier to have a go when it's not your situation)...TIAxxx

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golds · 31/08/2004 21:30

How old is she ? my 2 get pocket money (£2 on a Saturday) for this they have to make their beds everyday (only a quilt so easy) and tidy up. There rooms have never been so tidy, especially my dd, I may have problems with her at the moment, but her room is spotless !

bran · 31/08/2004 21:31

Good grief lavender, have you been on here all day? You seem to be on every thread.

Break it into chunks, I am the messy room queen since I was little, and sometimes I just don't know where to start. Tell her that she has 10/15 mins to put all the books on the bookshelves, then she can take a break. Then give her 10/15 mins to put all her dirty laundry in the basket, just keep going like that so that she has small, achieveable targets.

Lisa78 · 31/08/2004 21:32

How old is she?
I'd be inclined to set aside a chunk of time (a big chunk of time ) and really bottom the room, take in a bin bag or two for stuff to sling and stuff to take to a charity shop
then use threats / bribes / rewards for keeping it like that
I think when it reaches the critical mass point, most kids don't know where to start - my DS1 is 15 and he has been overwhelmed by the mess before (and by me when I have found it like that!!)

And why would anyone berate you for having a kid with a messy room, FHS!?

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joanneg · 31/08/2004 21:36

when I was a teenager my mum started to refuse to have anything to do with the tidying/cleaning of my bedroom. After a couple of months it was an absolute hovel (there should have been flies circling). I was really embarrased about taking friends home! So in the end I had a major clear up and although I wasnt great (teenage angst and all that) it was much better!

I suppose it depends on how old your dd is. The pocket money thing sounds good

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lavender1 · 31/08/2004 21:53

bran , I've been in and out all day...what's wrong with that? 15 mins at a time is good (in most things of parenting I am reasonable with this I am hopeless).

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spots · 31/08/2004 22:17

Bran that is genius. My dd's room is also very messy but she is only 3 months old. I think somebody in this household can really use your method

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