DD is nearly 5. She's been through a lot in her short life so far - parents separating and many hospital admissions. She is very sensitive and anxious generally. Since starting primary school she is exhausted, which is to be expected, but she doesn't seem to be able to relax and switch off so it takes forever for her to go to sleep. At bedtime it's question after question (really random things) and she will say the same thing a few times if I don't immediately respond. She's not really doing anything wrong (sometimes it will descend in to a tantrum) but she seems manic and I can't seem to get her to calm down. I've tried giving her a massage, reading to her, having a conversation that she completely leads in the hope that she will say everything that's on her mind, but nothing I do seems to work. She just can't relax. Does anyone have any other ideas?