I am feeling constantly torn when it comes to spending time with my husband, he's been in my life for 3 years and in my daughters for 2 years, the change has been hard for my daughter which I understand but i haven't been in a relationship with anyone since her father which ended when my daughter was born (11 years ago ), when everything is going good meaning when all the attention is on my daughter she is great, I'll spend time with her just the two of us as well as the 3 of us but the moment i start to have a conversation with my husband that takes my attention away from my daughter she gets angry or upset and makes me feel like I'm the worst mum in the world, i feel like I can't be happy unless it's just with my daughter, is this the same for anyone else?