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Wine and breastfeeding? ITS FRIDAY

36 replies

appletree100 · 02/11/2018 17:06

Every time i have a glass of wine and breastfeed, i frantically google how many glasses are alright to have and still breastfeed... Even after reading that such a tiny tiny amount gets into breast milk, i still only have one xx doesnt touch the sides haha. How many glasses of wine do you have and breastfeed, my DD is 3.5 months old xxx

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Bethacus · 02/11/2018 17:34

I’m exactly the same! The one time I let myself have more than one glass I was blindsided by a surprise cluster feeding session and was terrified!

Still, it means the wine lasts longer which works out well on maternity pay!

MasterSensei · 02/11/2018 18:37

My at 4 months my health visitor told me to relax enjoy myself and have a glass or two. She said as long as I wasn't going on a bender my dd wouldn't even notice! We do enough I think we can enjoy a glass of wine on a Friday night!
She says sipping a rose while breastfeeding to sleep 🍷 👍

mindutopia · 02/11/2018 18:42

I’ve never limited the amount of alcohol I consume. If I’m not falling down drunk (which I never am), it’s fine. But over the course of an afternoon/evening, maybe 3 glasses? I’ve had two glasses of prosecco so far tonight. Stretched out over time, it’s really hard to drink too much unless you’re slamming bottles of jack daniels or something.

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KTD27 · 02/11/2018 18:46

I follow the rule - if I’m ok to drive I’m ok to feed. I’m not at all worried about it getting into breast milk I’d likely be blackout drunk before levels were high enough to affect her and that’s obviously not happening so fine. Read expecting better - totally sorted my head out on this!

BertramKibbler · 02/11/2018 18:49

I cannot understand the need to drink any alcohol whilst caring for a small child, never mind breastfeeding one.

Caprisunorange · 02/11/2018 18:50

I drank as usual when breastfeeding, which is a fair bit by MN standards Grin

I can imagine you do find it hard to understand Bertram but luckily your understanding isn’t required

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 02/11/2018 18:53

I breastfed both of mine till they were 3.5, and regularly had a couple of glasses of wine over that time. They are now healthy, happy, intelligent 6 and 4 year olds - incidentally their immune systems are ridiculous, they are never ill. Their entire class can be felled with something really contagious and it doesn't touch them.

Have some wine and enjoy it. You're doing a grand job.

ParadiseLaundry · 02/11/2018 18:54

The only thing I would be mindful of would be if you're co sleeping, just make sure it's out of your system by the time you go to bed. But otherwise a glass or two of wine will definitely be fine Smile I'm still BF my 3yo and I wouldn't have made it so long if I couldn't drink! Grin

ADastardlyThing · 02/11/2018 18:56

It's absolutely fine op. Enjoy.

AlpacaLypse · 02/11/2018 18:59

TBH I was so knackered most of the time during the BF years, which are basically the same as the never getting more than 4 hours continuous sleep years, that one glass of wine was more than enough to completely knock me out usually. I did have a bit more a few times towards the end when the twins were only having one or two BFs a day. They're both considerably taller than me and are attending Russell Group universities, so I don't think it did them any appreciable harm.

BertramKibbler · 02/11/2018 19:53

No need to be snarky caprisun. Alcohol is a drug and not a necessary part of our diet

Caprisunorange · 02/11/2018 19:58

Do you only consume things necessary to your diet then? You are very unusual indeed

INeedNewShoes · 02/11/2018 20:02

I'd have two glasses without another thought. My worry with having more than that isn't about alcohol in my breast milk but my ability to look after DD. Three glasses is enough to make me really tipsy.

DappledThings · 02/11/2018 20:12

Only ever one glass. But that's only because my tolerance dropped so low! Might have gone for a second tonight but at my parents and it's already been cleared away as dinner's over and the coffee's come out. Dammit.

BertieBotts · 02/11/2018 20:20

Absolutely fine, you'd need to be completely paralytic before your milk is even slightly alcoholic.

Personally though I avoid primarily because I tend to bring the baby into bed to feed and often sleep, and this would be horribly dangerous with alcohol, and secondly because it just makes me feel immediately tired and sleepy rather than relaxed and sociable.

Alcohol and breastfeeding is fine, alcohol and newborn sleep habits is crap :o

appletree100 · 02/11/2018 20:20

Thank you lovelies xx for your replies xx made me smile xx i did have another glass or red... A large, while feeding :) i will leave it there though (for tonight) as she is going though a bit of a sleep regression, and i think i will find that harder if i had any more x

Love u all and happy friday (as a sneak another gulp from my husbands glass)

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BertramKibbler · 02/11/2018 20:24

Oh my goodness, I can’t believe the lack of care you seem to have. Being drunk around a newborn isn’t amusing.

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 02/11/2018 20:25

Oh piss off @BertramKibbler, she's had one glass.

Why exactly do you get your jollies out of trying to make a new mum feel bad about herself? What the hell is the matter with you???

BertramKibbler · 02/11/2018 20:27

What is the matter with me is that my brothers baby died of sids after his mum and dad had a quick drink one night. It’s not funny and I’m not trying to be a cow but the OP is here making giddy posts when she and her partner could be inadvertently endangering her child.

BuffaloCauliflower · 02/11/2018 20:30

Please explain the link between SIDS and someone having a glass of wine?

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 02/11/2018 20:31

Utter bollocks Bertram. No baby dies of SIDS because their parents had "a quick drink"", and it is beyond cruel to suggest they did to anyone.

BuffaloCauliflower · 02/11/2018 20:33

It’s very sad that that happened, but that’s what we call corrolation not causation

1gordoncurtis · 02/11/2018 20:33

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ADastardlyThing · 02/11/2018 20:33

Oh do ignore Bertram op.

Caprisunorange · 02/11/2018 20:36

Christ Bertram I hope you’re just stupid because saying something that evil about your brother is about as low as you can get

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