Am I the only one?

[Spiderpigxd]

I'm struggling to go back to work after pregnancy... my little boy is 8 months old and is beautiful, I was meant to go back to work after maternity leave about 6 weeks ago... but the doctor has tool me off work due to postnatal depression which I didn't know I had for the first few months but it got worse with my anxiety trying to go back to work... how do i over come this? I'm frightened work will fire me even though I've had sufficient doctors notes all in on time and I have kept them informed when I can... I want and need to go back eventually but I'll feel okay and then have a melt down tbebmorning I have to go and can't stop crying or struggle with panic attacks... I feel like I'm the only one...

Hi I'm sorry you are having to struggle with postnatal depression. Alot of women struggle with mental health issue after giving birth. If you have past your probation and are permanent I dont think they can fire you if you have sufficient doctorsnotes. If you want you can have a meeting with your works HR team to discuss your current situation it's called a welfare meeting. If you are unsure how you are going to be going back have you thought about phased return. Hope this helps x

Hi, I felt like you with my first. It does pass but it takes time. Don't rush anything, keep communication open and honest with work. Take baby steps in being separated from your beautiful baby so that you can build your confidence with it. My daughter thrived with her childminder who was very very supportive. Pick one thing that will help you to feel calm and work on that. It's easy as a new mum to feel overwhelmed and heartbroken and in love all at the same time xx