Daughter hates my boyfriend

[Angiepangy70]

Just looking for advice because I don’t know how to handle this, I have 2 children,son is 15, daughter is 12, my problem is that suddenly my daughter is threatening me that if my bf, who I’ve been with for 6 years, that if he sleeps over again, which is only about twice a week, that she’s going to go and live with her dad, the kids only stay with him one night a week, now she never sees my bf because she’s always in her bedroom, FaceTiming friends and stuff, anyhow I’ve told him he can’t stay here again because her happiness is my main priority, but i feel like she shouldn’t be telling me who I can’t have staying here, anyway sorry for the rambled post, just need advice really xx

Has she told you why?

You need to talk to her about why she feels like this about him

Given this is a SUDDEN change in her attitude toward him you NEED to find out why. Do you really need the likely reason pointed out to you though?

Did you talk to your daughter and try find out why she doesn't want him staying over anymore?

Firstly good on you for putting her first and secondly definitely try and get to the bottom of why she has developed this issue because it’s a bit odd after 6 years that she’s now having the problem. It could simply be her age and puberty though!