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2 year old showing signs of autism?

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Lateralus25107 · 21/09/2018 16:28

I’m concerned for my son who turned 2 years old last week. He is still not talking he can barely say 5 words. He points at everything he wants and babbles something that sounds nothing what the item he wants. Many times he just brings me items if I ignore him. If he wants milk he’ll open the fridge get the milk then climbs on counter and gets his cup and bring it over to me and babbles. He doesn’t have behaviors or tantrums if he doesn’t get his way and starts to cry I tell him to stop and he stops. He doesn’t have many signs of autism besides the fact that he can’t speak and doesn’t really understand simple directions unless I point. Like if I tell him to get his shoes sometimes he does and sometimes I have to point at them. If I tell him to get something from another room he has no idea unless I point to it then he’ll get it. He plays appropriately with toys and pretends to play like pretends to talk on the phone and uses items appropriately. If I give him a brush he’ll brush his teeth or a comb and he’ll comb his hair. He makes plenty of eye contact, responds to his name, brings me things to look at and plays with other kids but “acedemically” wise he’s very much behind. If we’re reading a book and I tell him to point to the fish he’ll point at it but then I’ll ask him to do the same on the next page and he’ll point to something else. I think he’s just guessing and doesn’t know what he’s supposed to be pointing at. Not being able to follow simple directions is really concerning or speak is very concerning to me. He has an appointment next month and I’ll be getting a referral to get him tested then.

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IWantMyHatBack · 21/09/2018 16:32

He sounds just like my youngest at the same age. He was slightly delayed, and barely had any understandable words at 2yo. He's 5 now, completely neurotypical. Some children just talk later.

With my youngest, because he was delayed in other areas too we were referred to the community paed, who then referred him for assessment/speech therapy.

If he's not showing any other signs I wouldn't worry too much, but getting him checked over is a good idea. Has he had his hearing checked?

ems137 · 21/09/2018 16:41

My 1st baby was EXACTLY the same at that age. I was so worried when I compared him to his peers, I had the health visitor round, a hearing test and a referral to speech therapy.

It turned out he was just a bit lazy and still is now at 12 years old!

Lateralus25107 · 21/09/2018 16:45

Yes his hearing is perfect I forgot to add his other sign is he doesn’t really like adults he LOVES kids but if an adult says hi he’ll either hide his face or hit his head with his hand. I’ll tell him to quit and he does but then he just hides

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nomad5 · 21/09/2018 16:47

Sounds like a delay, but it's good to have your eye on it. My DC was diagnosed at 3.5 with autism, but had delayed speech AND many other behavioural issues.

First port of call at age 2 was actually ENT. My DC had severely blocked ears and ended up having grommets (after a course of steroid spray) This helped somewhat with speech but wasn't a complete answer.

It's probably fine, but do make yourself heard if you're worried. Everyone told me "it's fine, my DC was like that, slow talker, started talking in full sentences at 4" but I KNEW there was something more and things just didn't get better. I trusted my instincts and when we got seen by child psych eventually they confirmed I was right to have not just left it.

Good luck OP.

nomad5 · 21/09/2018 16:48

I thought her hearing was perfect too, actually, until ENT diagnostics showed otherwise.

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