I absolutely love and adore my 10month old girl, but at the minute she is pushing me to my absolutely limits. After I gave birth i went straight back to uni to finish my final year and now I am finished I have to step up and be a proper mum. I feel that we don't have the bond I thought we would and I'm really struggling with day to day things and being motivated to do things with her! She is extremely clingy and cries all the time and her sleep pattern isn't great throughout the night. My pattern has his own business and works a lot and I feel like I'm nagging when he comes home and I ask him to do chores that I haven't been able to do. Luke I said before I absolutely love my baby girl but I feel like I have failed her by going back to uni but at the time I felt this was the best thing to do for our future but now I feel like it was the worst possible thing I could have done! Has anyone else been in a similar position and has it got better?? I'm just so down about the whole situation and don't feel in anyway a good parent or even partner at the moment!