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I hate my husband

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moumoute · 02/08/2018 13:47

I know this title is recurring...
Our baby is 5 months. I am on maternity leave, abroad, in his country. I have no friends here. I don't speak the home langage because of the lack of interaction. (I am in Scandinavia). He is at home with us 'starting his own business' but often too lazy to work on it. Since baby was born we haven't touch each other, not even a hug. I used to squeeze him and cuddle him a lot. Sexually it has never been great because of our different tastes (he doesn't like foreplay, i need it). So now there is nothing left but loving our baby or fighting each other. We have said the most horrible things to each other. We could split. Is there anyone who has been in this situation? There is so much to say and so little at the same time.

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anotherangel2 · 02/08/2018 15:02

You might be better posting this relationships. Very few women would not want foreplay.

Babdoc · 02/08/2018 15:05

Why did you marry him, OP? What are his good points? And lots of Scandinavians speak pretty good English, if you want to try and get out a bit socially. How about going along to a mum and baby group for a start? Or joining a language class?

monikagabi · 02/08/2018 15:24

try to get out ,sometimes it can be PND ,but rule it out u should just start going out without him,take the baby with you enjoy fresh air,sign up for some classes.
it helps if you talk about thing and men can be realy hard to talk to but u have to try,and if you exhausted all options,then just tell him you are leaving and that you miss your home and your family and that you need some time.if he will want to go with you then he loves you and he want to be with you,if he will let you go,he loves you but not enough,and if he will want you to stay and will be very angry about situation ,he is trying to control you ,leave anyway because that is not life for you and your baby

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GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 02/08/2018 15:27

try to get out ,sometimes it can be PND

Sorry but I think the problem here is that moumoute's husband is a lazy fucking prick!

Can you go back to your family/homeland temporarily to get some headspace and/or help with baby?

Arewehomeyet · 02/08/2018 15:30

Leaving will be very difficult in a foreign country I think you will need permission to take your baby if you want to go home Sad

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