Hi All,
Im a mother of 2.5 year old daughter.
Im a stay at home mom nd totally dependng on my husband fr evrythng.As i dnt ve wrkng visa to wrk and i dint ve driving license im totally depend on my husband.
Recently i put my daughter in playschool fr 3 hours fr 3 days in a week just to play wit othr kids as nobdy s cmng out in winter to the playarea.In a month she got pneumonia nd hospitalized.I was the one who was being blamed on since it was my idea to put her to playschool. I took her to other kids home fr smetme as me nd my daughter can ve sme gud tme with othr moms nd their kids. She got fever nxt day.Again evrybdy in my family s blaming me bcz im puttng her to playschool nd tkng her out to play with kids nd thts hw she gt fever. As a mom did shouldnt i put her to playschool?As a mom is tht wrong to tke her to other kids home to ve some playtime?
Many working moms r puttng der kids in daycare all the day...why this happenig to me alone?.. im totally upset wit all the things happening...im being told my family tht im not fit to be a mom..im not thinking anything before doing things like this....
Even today i just put some water in tub and let her play at home since we dint go out much recently and she got mild fever now...Again he says that im making things complicated...As a mom , im alwys making mistakes nd doing nothing correctly....
Am i really a bad mom? Im doubting myself....y dis s all happening to me alone... im already fed up of stay at home hearing all these blames...added to that my daughter s gttng more sick recently .
It would be great if anyone of you gve me suggestions or ideas to be a perfect mom....