Im still nursing my 2.5yr old daughter.Kindly help me to know how to stop it..plzz

[Papputweety21]

Hi my daughter is 2.5 yrs old.Im breastfeeding her yet.I tried weaning for a very long time but it is not working at all.I’m the only person who is taking care of her all the time.My husband is busy at work and he doesn’t want her to cry in night as his sleep is getting disturbed.I’ve to rock her to sleep and if she gets disturbed or if she wakes up in night she will start to nurse as she is sleeping in our bed. I’m not sure how to stop feeding her without any help and disturbance.Really i’ve no clue how to do it as i cannot make her to cry out by herself to sleep because my husband will not allow me to do it.I’m the only person who will be blamed for this.Really need some ideas from you guys.please..

Surely your husband gets up with your daughter at night anyway. Sleep training would only make that better

Do you bf during the day? If so, have you tried reducing by one feed at a time during the day? Would you find it better if you only breast feed at night for now? You have my sympathy, I have a non sleeper and it's so tough.

I think your husband needs to remember that your child is his responsibility too. I breastfeed too and I have reminded mine at times how lucky he is in a way, because he's avoided nearly all night responsibilities for a long time.
It sounds like it might mean a few nights of him getting up to soothe your child so that they learn to rely on different methods to get back down.
Yes he has work but it's unrealistic to expect no broken sleep with a small child and he needs to help.
You need rest too

Hi Yea i bf once in a daytime that too during day nap but i almost stopped it during daytime since i let her to cry and sleep...Since he s getting disturbed and t eventually leads to fight btwn me nd my husband i cldnt do the same at night...so i cldnt sleep properly at night time everyday as i ve to nurse her whenevr she s wkng up :-(