So today is my 30th birthday and i am really upset to the point i think i actually had enough of my husband. He is a student and i work full time, we have 2 year old boy. Ever since i turned 29, i was telling my husband throughout the year how i really wanted to have a nice 30th birthday all planned for me so he better ask me questions so he knows what to plan. I told him although with my previous bdays, a present was sufficient, id choose a place to dine out, this 30th bday is different. I know its just a number but its a very big deal to me, so i wanted special bday. So today, i asked him if he had anything planned for me, he said no nothing is planned. He cant afford going away, which is reasonable, i asked to go somewhere in UK but the places down south cost £80 per night so i though thats fine i can disregard this. He realised i was getting peed off so he bought flowers. I am sorry but flowers wont cut it off, a man should give flowers to his wife/gf every once in a while specially if she loves em not on bdays. Basically, no cake, no presents and his excuse is he is broke and all the money he had went for the rent not to mention we have been arguing alot lately, he thought id walk out so why bother. Why didnt he get a summer job?! Weekend job to show me he cares?!
I am not trying to be a drama queen but i am so hurt and disappointed. I had friends/family who were broke at one point in thier life, but they made an ‘effort’ even a bar of my favourite choclate. But with him no effort. He did not even plan for a nice meal out! When he realised how i was not having it, he start saying how he will take me out ! But this is not the point, why not plan for it?! Why not making an effort! I refuse to go out with him ! I am so peed off, id rather spend the day on my own not doing anything !