If you give your DCs milk directly before bed, what do you do about cleaning teeth? We used to give 15 month old DD a bottle of cow's milk just before bed but have stopped in literally the past couple of days after I posted a thread about this topic and got lots of advice saying you must clean their teeth afterwards otherwise the natural sugars from the milk (whether it's cow's/formula/breast) stays on their teeth all night otherwise and can damage teeth. This applies whether the milk is taken from a bottle/cup/breast apparently.
It doesn't work to give DD a bottle before cleaning teeth as she associates it with falling asleep (she can go to sleep without it, but if we gave her it in the evening she'd start falling asleep, if that makes sense), so we're just trying to give her more yoghurt/milk in food/cheese throughout the day to make up for the good 7oz she was getting at bedtime and now isn't. She's not interested in drinking 'straight' milk from a cup.
So, do I just not worry and hope she's getting enough milk from the other sources mentioned or do I go back to giving her milk at night and not worry about her teeth?