Bedtime

[Abi1987]

My son is 27 months,bedtime has been a proper struggle for the last 2 months and I'm really loosing my mind, my anxiety is through the roof. He naps for 1 and half hours through the day at 1pm and isn't tired ehen i start his bedtime routine at 7 (bath milk teeth book bed) I have to literally shout at him to lay down and it's really getting to me. My bf doesn't help and he doesn't believe in routine and would much rather he stayed up till he dropped so I feel on my own. Is ee ready to drop his nap? He's going to sleep about 10-10.30pm.i have no time on my own and I'm shattered.

Try dropping his nap and see how it goes. Your boyfriend sound unsupportive

Just wondering is he crying in his cot when you are shouting at him to lie down. I was always told by my mum, you can tell them when to go to bed but you can't make them sleep. Yeah maybe see if he can cope without the nap in the day, but if he is just not tired can you just leave him in his cot to amuse himself until he drops off ?

He's not been in a cot since he was 20months old. Learnt to climb out of it, he's got a bed with a side bar on xx