We have an appointment on 12th July for her integrated health review with health visitor.
The nursery just say that they sit her downwards ith everyone else and encourage her to eat but often she will have a bite and then refuse anymore or just not at all. They assume she will get better with more time.
She eats at home on non-nursery days better than her nursery days. She says bye-bye in the morning and walks to nursery with no issues, but then cried at every drop-off. But when I pick her up she is happily playing with her new friend there etc, so I think it's just she's super attached to us. If you ask her if she would like to go to nursery, it's 50/50 whether she will moan and day no, or nod. Sometimes she will point at the nursery while we walk past to the park and moan because she wants to go in there.
She is not toilet trained yet. She has only started in the past few months to let us know she has pooed or done a wee, before she wouldn't care but she notifies you now and is attempting to wipe when I change her etc, but does not like using the potty. She always would wee on her dad after the shower when drying her hair so we put her on the potty instead, and she stopped doing the after-shower wee. Nursery say start potty training ready for 3 years old and they will help, but they are not concerned she is not trained at present.
She often does not want to eat when she is "busy" doing her own thing or in a mood - when she's in a mood she will ask for a comforter and then throw it away again when you've given it to her, so... But sometimes you have to just get a little taste of it in her mouth and then she stops resisting. Like once she tastes it she sometimes thinks 'mm that's quite nice actually' but not sure if nursery do that with her.
The milk I know is a problem. Her dentist said her teeth are fine though. She doesn't have any milk all day, just water, then her milk in a bottle at night. We did try a cup for her diluted-milk/water night bottle but she can't drink from that lying down so will refuse it.
I know it's more a comfort thing, the bottle of milk, but nothing else seems to work! It's also not like she has her own bedroom where we can leave her to settle, it's all one room. I try stroking her and just sitting with her, and she has her comforter...
She is a healthy weight etc, not overweight and not underweight. She is quite big for her age though, people mistake her for a 3 year old.