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Father of our children taking me to court but I'm not rufusing access

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Mum2twoboysx · 03/06/2018 10:26

Hello,
I would love people advice, me and my ex partner have two boys together they are now 4 and 2 , me and my ex split a year ago now and have not had a great relationship since, I try my best to stay on mutual ground but he is always changing plans and making up excuses on why he can't have our children, I do get very frustrated when he lets them down and have in the past said thing I regret, but the last 4 months have been very toxic on his part he constantly makes arguments out of thin air and makes up excuses as to why he is changing the kids ruiten but now he has said he is cutting all contact with the kids till he takes me to court! Can he do that can he take me to court even though he is the one that has stopped contact , I have prof of all the times he has let our children down and him not paying matanance for months on end, I don't really no where I stand and I don't really no what to do next.
Thankyou in advance

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BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 03/06/2018 10:28

Let him waste his money.

If he has no real grievance and no case, you can save money by representing yourself

bastardkitty · 03/06/2018 10:32

I doubt he will actually file to court. He probably isn't intending to see the children again but wants to keep you dangling. He will look an arsehole in court if he does. Did he put in writing that he isn't going to see the DCs until he has a court order?

Mum2twoboysx · 07/06/2018 17:22

Hey yes he put in writing that he is having no contact with them well he sent me an email saying this, I have always been very fair with him I don't think he quite realises if he gets a court order that he can't pick and choose when he can have them anymore! Or do you think this is just a cop out and no longer wants to have contact with them anymore, it's so hard because both boys adore there dad and he can be such a good dad when he does have them Angry

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