I feel really strongly and always will that I do not want my dc around smoking, or anyone who has been smoking.
Dc is 2 months old, dp promises again and again to give up, or that he has given up. Until I smell it off him or find evidence. He's one of them I have given up 'but.... I was stressed, i did it because bla bla bla 
. Pathetic excuses really.
Anyway dp mother insists on bringing him cigarettes back from holiday and it makes me so angry that she knows how I feel and that he is feebly trying to give up smoking. I feel like she's trying to work against me. Anyway anytime dc visits she smokes then expects to hold dc, I've read that you still breathe out the toxins after 30
Mins after smoking, not to mention that it's stuck to her clothes. I don't get when she knows I don't was dc around that she continues to do it, we don't visit that often or for that long you think she'd hold off til we've left. I don't put my dc in around that so why should I let her do it ?!