Hello, so my ex husband left when my son was one to shack up with another woman, and for the first couple months he would still stay the day he had our son as to want a normal 'marital evening and life.'
He is still with the girl and things were ok when they lived with his mum. Then they moved in with his gf mum. Since then there is a massive change in our son. Our son is 3.5.
He has nightmare about going to daddies and says I need to stop it.
He says daddy and the gf go back to bed and he plays on his own all day
He sends him to nursery with out of date food and inappropriate clothes for the weather
The son comes home and is a emotional wreck and is just happy to be home.
He screams about going to daddies and hides behind me, his dad just sits on his phone whilst I convince him.
The dad openly tells our son he is going
On holiday and won't take him as it wouldn't be a holiday.
He constantly sends me abusive messages when I am the one looking after our son, threatening to stop maintenance and block my number etc.
Now he hasn't pood since last week so 5days, and he is saying daddy tells him
It's naughty to poo in his nappy and daddy makes him hide. So he is trying to lock
Himself away at home, is scared of us trying to help him potty train since the day his dad tried. And now the doctors think he is retaining it because of daddy. They have stayed I am to not send him until
Social servicservices s have got in contact.
Can anyone tell me what my next steps are. What will social services do, will they accept my notepad of evidence even if the ex is convincing, how long will it take for me to get the first initial contact from them etc?