Hi ladies,
I don't post here much. But I really need advice. My ex and I have a 2 kids, a boy and a girl. Boy is 15 months. Girl is 3. Me and the ex are trying to see if we can get back together. We have just been going away on family trips and hanging out as a family. He is a good dad but he can be very careless. On his phone loads. Can be very absent minded when it comes to safety. My son fell and split his eyebrow open yesterday in my ex's house. There was loads of blood, ambulance had to be called, he got stitches and was fine. I was also fine about it, it was an accident, these things happen. Today, I get a call to say he was in the park with the kids, he had our son in the buggy without strapping him in and he was looking at my daughter when my son fell head first out of the buggy into gravel. He has a big egg on his forehead. His nose is bright red an scuffed with bits of blood, plus the stitches on the other side from yesterday. His poor little face looks awful. I cried when I saw it. He's in bed now. Dad just said look I'm really really sorry, it was a mistake, I know I should have used the straps, it was my fault and I'm really sorry. We are all supposed to be traveling away together tomorrow on a ferry to see his parents (we're in Ireland he's in England).
What would you do? I feel like telling him we're not going