SO... dh had day off work to care for the two ds's, I' am at work. he worked between 4am and 7am so he was tired, even though I advised and suggested to him not to go in. I get home later on that afternoon and the neighbour is going nuts. The ds has had been playing ring the bell and run away, posting rude notes at their door and generally being out of control! Shockingly bad behaviour even from them. I am beyond mortifyed.
Where were you I asked dh? 'Asleep in the bedroom', he replied... I went apeshit too. I have a dh that isn't responsible adult and now our neighbour is rightly very angry. Am disciplining the ds's with sorry notes to the said neighbour and extra chores and extra talkings to about how to be kind to people in general lessons...
But how to deal with a f-ing usless dh? He thinks this was acceptable childcare.