I’m a FTM and struggling to deal with my anxious thoughts after a near miss accident last night. We set up an old microphone stand (heavy, made of metal) to hold our three month old’s mobile in the living room. This allowed her to see if when on her changing mat on the floor and when she was in her bouncy seat. Last night I accidentally put the legs of the microphone stand on top of the the bouncy seat’s support when moving it around so when I lifted the bouncy seat later in the evening to move it the microphone stand toppled over narrowly missing my baby who was lying on the changing mat on the floor. I am replaying the sight of it falling over and over and am so worried that she could have been hurt or even killed because of my stupidity. DH has been really good about it telling me that it was an accident and that nothing happened so I should just forget about it but I can’t stop thinking about what might have happened if it had have fallen in a different direction. Has anything like this happened to anyone else and how do you deal with these thoughts??