Depression and relationships

[Rachg88]

Hi everyone this is my first time posting on there I'm looking for some advise.
So me and my partner have been together nearly 7 years with a child. He's always been abit of a worry really because he's rubbish with money and has had problems with drugs in the past, but the last 6 months have been hell hes been disappearing for hours and coming home drunk, lying about money, I caught him on websites to find local sex, messaging other women which was a massive shock he has never seemed that kind of guy. I desided to call it a day but now he's saying their is something going on in his head! I'm worried it might be depression do I stay with him because he could be ill? even though I'm not sure I will ever trust him again or is depression not a reason to have done the things he's done?

No you do not stay with him, being depressed is no excuse going on sex sites looking for other women..he could be bringing diseases into your bed, have you been checked at the gym clinic? Neither is lying about money..he’s lost your trust and you’ll spend your days wondering what he’s doing and who he’s with..he wasn’t worrief about you when he was doing these things, if he was depressed why didn’t speak to you about it? He didn’t want to!
You’ve a child to look after, your no use to your kid running after him..if he’s genuine he will change but he won’t xhsnge if you take him back because he’s suddenly got a conscious and blaming depression and pissing off for hours getting drunk with god knows who