I've been married to my husband for 9 years and have 2 lovely children who we both adore. We used to live with his parents and that caused alot of problems for us as my mil complained about me constantly to my husband about how I was bringing up my children and put me down constantly. My husband did support me but caused alot of unhappiness ..we have moved out but my husband constant verbal abuse regarding my past and my family hurts me.it causes alot of stress and my sons gets upset. I wish I could leave him but I left everything for him. To have children and be a stay at home mum. I don't have anyone I can rely on ..im so scared as I've had a very abusive past that my husband constantly uses against me like he is the victim and not me. I won't be able to get anything from the house as its all his and we never registered our marriage only had a religius ceremony.im so scared ..i don't know what to do.