I’m struggling to find a logical natural consequence for when DS1 (almost 3) throws things or hits DS2. When his behaviour is unacceptable outside (e.g. he’ll run on the sidewalk - our rules are clearly written and often reminded), for instance he will loose his autonomy (not decide what he prefers so do between playground and shopping, have to go in the stroller instead of having fun on his scooter, etc.) but he just threw a night light at us from 5ft away and we’re shocked. He got a very stern no, throwing hurts and we stopped what he was doing, we said we needed time to think because we were so shocked but now I don’t know what to.
Any idea please?