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Can't control toddler without tv

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moonmaker · 09/11/2017 10:04

My 20 month old is super active and a real handful . My previous children were very active too but would play nicely at this age to an extent . He has plenty of toys but shows little interest in them . He absolutely loves me to sit and read him a story and this calms him down but it’s 10 am and we have gone through all the stories x2. I also have heaps of laundry and cooking to do for my other dc so can’t sit and read to Him the whole morning . So far this morning he has - been yanking the blinds like mad almost breaking them , has already yanked the stick
Off them , been banging toys on the wall and dented / scratched it , opened the downstairs loo door and tap and drenched the floor , thrown stuff into the loo, thrown all the shoes off the show rack , scribbled on a door (keep telling dc to make sure pens out of the way but there will always be one ) toppled and dismantled the high chair , thrown all books of the shelves , cried for water then thrown it , cried for a satsuma then squeezed it everywhere and threw it , ( hasn’t had breakfast and won’t eat either ) , climbed onto the dining table and thrown the decorative items off , pulled a charger out of a socket and tore it apart with his teeth ,thrown all the laundry of the drying rack , etc He’s currently scraping the walls again which he loves . Am so drained and he is a really poor sleeper so I have been up every hour too. If I put CBeebies on its like magic , he will sit mesmerised the whole time . I do it and tell myself ten min only but the peace and quiet and lack of destruction is so tempting , 10 min becomes 20 which becomes 40 . It’s not on all day as I know it would probably worsen his restlessness in the long run ( as much as I would love it to be )but I don’t know what else to do and am at my wits end .

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Ttbb · 09/11/2017 12:21

My eldest was like that. Once he got more cognitive or wasn't as bad. At 3 1/2 he can now sit completely still and play with lego at the table folliwing the instructions independently for a whole hour if we let him. The only things that I can reccomend is lots of exercise to tire him out while you wait for him to grow out of it. At that age ours could jog a whole mile before getting tired. He can now jog two with energy left over. Swimming is also very good for tiring out. I would also reccomend putting on shoes that relate to his toys. E.g. Foreman Sam if he has a fore track because it will inspire him to play imagination games with them which will keep him busy.

moonmaker · 09/11/2017 12:29

Sleeping he climbed up the dining table and knocked the balls I had in a bowl - took all of about thirty seconds whilst I was in the same room with my back turned , hanging up washing on the rack . Biting the charger head and pulling it off with his teeth also is a quick twenty second or less whilst again I was in the same room just making up the bed . You probably haven’t got a child as active as this one if you think he’s unsupervised or needs a long time to cause damage !

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moonmaker · 09/11/2017 12:30

Thanks ttbb-** atleast there’s hope !

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Nannyplumssillyoldelf · 09/11/2017 12:45

He sounds like my Dd very active and completely destructive. I'd put the telly on and not feel guilty. She will play with her toys for a little while but mainly she's getting up to no good.

Nannyplumssillyoldelf · 09/11/2017 12:54

I feel your pain too about being ill. I've got a stinking cold and have to go to work soon. I'm trying to get her to have a nap but she isn't having any of it. I just wanted an hour of peace before work but its not happening.

LiveLifeWithPassion · 09/11/2017 13:07

As long as he’s getting out and getting a good run around too, it’s fine.
I used to put films on for my toddlers so I could get on with stuff.
It was important for my sanity and everyone else’s.
Now they’re older, they don’t watch much tv and get on with lots of things.
Don’t worry about it.

SleepingStandingUp · 09/11/2017 15:28

moonmaker just a slower climber and less focus - thankfully mine still has to do the pull up onto the chair, scuttle butt, pull up into table etc. He's get sidetracked halfway and bounce for a bit or try headbutting it first to see if it was friendly.
It genuinely wasn't meant as a bitch , fiat that sometimes I give in and do very little housework because otherwise it takes too long to clear up.

Do you have a partner? Could they pick up some of the jobs you need to get done in the day so you have less tasks, especially whilst you're exhausted and poorly? You want get better if your basic self is so run down

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