I have 1 DS who is 9 months old. Obviously my Mum loves him but she hasn't spent huge amounts of time with him, which is fine. When I go round to her house, she is always putting me and DH down. She says we spend too much time on our phones and ignoring him (fine if thats her opinion but she says it often and in a snide manner), we put him to bed too late, she doesn't like when I try to do BLW and let him feed himself, she thinks it should be all jars and purees. She even said 'are you maternal like I was? Would you die for him?' I mean what a question?! He's my son, of course I would! She was a caring mum but hardly the best as I don't think I would be nearly 30 and in therapy if she was (another story), if she comes to me and sees DS in his rocker or jumparoo she will say 'how longs he been in that.. all day?' implying I've just dumped him and not paid him any attention. He had a tummy bug so we gave him just milk for the day and she commented for days how I'm starving him etc. DH says I don't bite back enough. I don't know what to do.