Ok, guilty mum feelings here.
I separated from H 2 years ago after staying at home with my children for 6 years and not working. They are now 8,6 and 4 (well next month)
Anyway, I wanted to get back to work and I needed to when we separated and moved. They are all well settled in school and nursery. (youngest starts big school next September).
I drop the older two children at breakfast club at 7.30am and the youngest at nursery at 8.00am. Youngest is happy at his nursery.
After school, my childminder picks them up and they have to walk about 1/2 mile back to hers. (she has a van for the service but doesn't really use it). I pick them up about 5PM.
Middle one and oldest have been saying the walking back (especially in the rain or cold )is too much and they moan sometimes in the morning about going.
My CM's daughter is my eldest daughter's best friend and she has always been good and taken them at short notice ect. So we have quite a good relationship.
I know lots of mums out there probably feel guilty too and wondered really if I am making them do much after a school day . I know another nursery locally who have spaces who collect the mindees in a car/van and is also a bit cheaper.
I can't cut my hours as it's been really tricky finding a decent job after 6/7 years not working.
WWYD?