I am a mother to 5. 3 over 18 and 2 under 3. I'm doing a renovation and money is tight and move in has been delayed. I'm paying rent and a mortgage. I'm tired as I'm dealing with 2 babies. I have health problems including cardiac. All relevant I think.
My oldest came home from uni for a few days and expects me to cook and clean for him. Which I do. I'm not sure why he comes home as he just sleeps. We spend little time together unless it's me treating him to food out etc. He's extremely rude. Something I've not noticed before. Others have told me he's rude and selfish but I've not noticed before. I've have noticed though that the less I see of him the more I see it. Anyway. He wanted me to drive him to uni and move him. It's 2 hours away. I agreed. Took 3.5 hours with traffic and when we got to the house I realised he wasn't packed and ready to go. We did several trips to move him but time was getting on and I was anxious to get home to my youngest who I knew wouldn't settle without me. His attitude was.......well you knew why you were coming. I said yes. To move you. Not pack for you. He was rude and I shouted etc. Anyway. Move all done and I rang him say I was finally home. And I suspected my youngest was inconsolable. So ive messaged him a few times to ask how he's settling in. Nothing. Today I jokingly said. You talking to me yet. He said. No not until you appologise to me for how you shouted at me. I just said. Ok. Ummmmmm AIBU to think you'll be waiting a while then. He's 23 btw