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3yr old says w instead of r

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OohLookASquirrel · 13/08/2017 20:08

Dd is a very forward talker and has the vocabulary of a teenager ( Angry ), but she is struggling to say her Rs and they come out as W. Does anyone know if this is something that will correct itself as she gets older or something I should be working to correct now?
I've looked online for exercises to curb it but they all talk about school age children. I've tried modelling the correct pronunciation but she is getting a bit arsey with me for repeating what she is saying all the time, haha!

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Darthvadersmuuuum · 13/08/2017 20:12

My DH still does this. Give her a break, she's 3!

Dizzywhore · 13/08/2017 20:15

She's 3 it will come. This is very very common!

OohLookASquirrel · 13/08/2017 20:17

Death I'm very aware that she is 3... she thinks she is the queen of everything! I am, however, just asking for advice. This is parenting, not AIBU, back off!

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biffyboom · 13/08/2017 20:18

My 3yr old can't pronounce 'sp' so we get poon, piderman, picy

blondiebonce · 13/08/2017 20:18

Most of the 3 year olds I know do this including mine. Most of the adults I know don't so I figure it's fine. I'm more concerned with the Americanisms and habit of dropping her "T"s!

MeanAger · 13/08/2017 20:18

My son (8) talks like this. He had speech therapy from age 2.5 until 6.5 when he was discharged. They said the w for r sounds would correct itself by around age 7. It hasn't but I'm not too worried and neither Is he.

OohLookASquirrel · 13/08/2017 20:19

Darth even! Stupid phone!

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Athome77 · 13/08/2017 20:20

I still do it and I'm 40! Generally I think before I say things like rabbit, but if I'm drunk it becomes much more noticeable and we have 'wabbits'

LemonRedwood · 13/08/2017 20:21

It most likely will correct itself as she learns and develops, but you can still see a speech and language therapist. If nothing else, they can show you how to model speech to your DD.

Don't know where you are in the country but in Herts pre-school-age children can be taken to drop-in sessions with SALTs. Other LAs may do similar.

theclockticksslowly · 13/08/2017 20:22

My DD did/does this with a number of different sounds (and also has a huge vocabulary!). They literally have disappeared one by one overnight sometimes! I don't think it's something to be worried about right now - just keep reinforcing the correct pronounciation when reading to her perhaps.

BendingSpoons · 13/08/2017 20:23

As Mean says, r is one of the most difficult sounds, and often isn't acquired until 5 or later. When you are modelling it, are you able to do it subtly e.g. If she says 'I wan fast' you can say, 'yes you ran really fast!', so her brain is hearing the correct sound but you aren't directly correcting her.

DoomGloomAndKaboom · 13/08/2017 20:37

Agree - this is very bog standard, no reason to worry.

Can you play a game where you get her to go rrrrrrr eg roar like a lion, growl like a dog? Then you'll know if she can make an r sound - but if she can't yet, like everyone says, it's no cause for alarm.

OohLookASquirrel · 13/08/2017 20:40

Thanks for your advice and support all. I'll just let her get on with it for a bit and if it continues into school, I'll ask for a SALT referral. Hooray for MN!

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Falconhoof1 · 13/08/2017 20:46

My DS still does this but is getting better. He's 8. I was getting worried but at 3 i believe it's normal.

Falconhoof1 · 13/08/2017 20:50

Also, it didn't hold Jonathan Ross back!( I used to comfort myself with that thought anyway!)

SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 13/08/2017 20:53

My 6 year old still does this. My now 16 year old also did until around age 8.

Don't worry, it's so common it's normal.

Yika · 13/08/2017 20:57

You can look up which sounds children usually master in which order. R is one of the last, most children have mastered it by age 6/7 I think.

chips4teaplease · 13/08/2017 20:58

I remember my mum ensuring no-one mocked me, not even my dad, for lisping, when I was three in 1960. That was very enlightened for the time, and one of the few things I remember with gratitude.

I can say 'R' now, and 'S'.

My dd had 'Speech and Drama' lessons from age six. That might help your dd if it is still needed at that time.

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