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Swizzler · 28/03/2007 19:30

Was going to post on the modern parenting = load of brats' thread but I can't find it! So here goes:

What is this obsession with other parents spoiling their children? Surely most parents (and, of course, all MN parents ) do the best they can - praising their children, disciplining them where necessary and hoping that they'll turn out to be reasonable adults?

Am I worried about Algernon in Fresh and Wild being a brat? No. There have always (and will always) be spoiled children. He may grow up to be a w*nker. He may (against all expectations) grow up to be nice bloke. Can't see the problem either way.

What I am worried about it the child in the supermarket who gets told to shut up when she tries to chat to her mum. The kids who get no help or encouragement. The ones who never hear an adult say 'I'm proud of you' or 'Well done'.

So IMVHO (having not read the rest of that thread) Millennium Children is a load of balls. We should stop sniping at other well-meaning parents, hope we do a reasonable job and LOOK AFTER THE CHILDREN WHO REALLY NEED IT.

Right, feel better now. Off to have a drink .

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RanToTheHills · 28/03/2007 19:33

I suppose i'ts because more parents are time-poor than previosly so tend to give material things rahter than their proper attention (as you dsay)to their kids. Also that it's now frowned upon to smack and society encourages us to "respect"children in a way that would have been utterly alien to my parents generation. this has it's downside,imo.

Swizzler · 28/03/2007 19:42

But surely there have always been spoiled children who get whatever they want? Just can't see why people get worked up about it. If you love your children and try and parent them as best you can, you have a fighting chance of them turning out OK. What's to obsess about?

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DarrellRivers · 28/03/2007 19:46

I thought you might have started this thread so that we could sign up if we were carrying out perfect parenting
I agree though.
Who cares what everyone else does, concentrate on how you are doing yourself, and then try not to get too obsessive about it
Life is all about embracing the differences

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Swizzler · 28/03/2007 19:52

Exactly

And I AM a perfect parent...

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malaleche · 28/03/2007 19:57

What I don't understand is why i turned out to be a selfish, spoilt adult when im pretty sure our mum was great with us when we were little. We didnt have much so were not spoilt as far as material things went. My mum was always making us think of how others would feel in a situation etc etc so what went wrong?!

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