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5 weeks old.. flailing arms jumpy and petrified?!

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Tch1 · 24/07/2017 22:16

My baby Is 5 weeks old and has always slept in a Moses basket however As of the last week as soon as I lay her in the basket her arms fly out open at her side really tense with her firsts scrunched and she looks really petrified. She had also become really jumpy. I've tried to calm her but she really howls like never before and it breaks my heart! Any advice on what is causing this / how it can be avoided or even how to soothe her quicker?? I'm getting desperate Its so awful to see her like that!

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Justhadmyhaircut · 24/07/2017 22:18

It just normal startle reflex. . .
Maybe wrap her up a bit!?

7to25 · 24/07/2017 22:18

Totally normal, startle reflex.
Try swaddling?

Nowthereistwo · 24/07/2017 22:19

As pp. Try swaddling as it stops the arms from flailing around.

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IdentifiesAsASloth · 24/07/2017 22:20

Ooh you are making me broody, I love it when they do that.
It sounds like a normal reflex. Have you tried swaddling her?

MamaG1980 · 24/07/2017 22:27

My little girl did that I had to lower her down while still holding her against my chest and then slowly remove physical contact. It became an art lol

Tch1 · 24/07/2017 22:40

She won't let me swaddle her arms she cries about that too.. she sleeps with them above her head! How long does this last? I'm so new it kills me to see!!

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harleysmammy · 24/07/2017 22:44

My son does this and he's 12 weeks, he's stopped doing it as much now but like someone else said, lying then down close to your chest and only letting go when there led down does make it easier x

Patriciathestripper1 · 24/07/2017 22:44

It's the morrow reflex and perfectly normal.
As people have said try swaddling before you lay her down so she feels secure.

Saz467 · 25/07/2017 19:57

Completely normal. Try the 'love to dream' swaddle which allows them to have their arms up, but makes them feel secure. Mine used to startle and fought a traditional swaddle, but he loves his arms up swaddle now. Naps much longer in it too.

HeyRoly · 25/07/2017 20:00

It's called the Moro reflex and it's totally normal. Don't worry Smile I know everything is worrying when you have a newborn, but she isn't scared so don't feel guilty.

Hmmalittlefishy · 25/07/2017 20:07

Yep as above completely normal although I noticed it more prominently with ds3.
There is a way to lie them down to help them not throw their arms out. I will check but I think it's make sure head down first the feet last but someone may correct which way!

CWG17 · 25/07/2017 20:09

There are a few ways of swaddling so the arms stay up, I'll see if I can find something on google for you.

CWG17 · 25/07/2017 20:14

This is what we used to do, and it's perfect.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=4xm5wjqr0vA&itct=CBIQpDAYACITCM7ouJKSpdUCFYWlWAodRUYAJzIHcmVsYXRlZEjltqTKq_3Uzi4%3D

Leaves the legs free (good for hips) and allows arms to stay up in the natural cactus position.

Tch1 · 26/07/2017 09:39

Oh yeah if you could please that would be brilliant!! Thank you :)

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Tch1 · 26/07/2017 09:40

CWG17... thank you!! I will get some stretchy fabric and give it a go Smile

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Decanter · 26/07/2017 09:44

Aw I'd forgotten about that! ...but recognised your description right away OP Smile Yes totally normal as per everyone's replies. Smile

ineedwine99 · 26/07/2017 09:45

No advice as my baby swaddled, but i do know how you feel, she did the same during daytime naps and it freaked me out so much to start with, and the twitch they get while asleep too, was terrified something was wrong, but she did grow out of it

ineedwine99 · 26/07/2017 09:45

PS congratulations on your baby :-)

whifflesqueak · 26/07/2017 09:50

Aw I remember this.

My boy had an exaggerated Moro reflex. If you google it I'm sure there are videos. It was obviously quite distressing for him in the moment but also quite amusing to watch once I got used to them.

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