Counselling for child

[whatsmyname2017]

Sorry if this is the wrong place to put this. I'd like to get some counselling for my 9yo son who has had to deal with his parents separating and death of his Gran and Uncle in the space of 3 months.

How do I go about this. My private health doesn't cover it as he's under 18. I've booked an appointment with Relate but its £50 per session and not sure I can afford that.

I've not spoken to GP yet but assume it would take ages to get an appointment.

Any advice?

What about his school, would they be able to help? Is there a school counsellor?

Poor lad, it does sound like he's having a tough time.

and as if you are having a tough time

Thanks corythatwas - he actually seems to be coping OK but was upset the other day and thought it might be an idea for him to talk to someone. I just want to make sure he really is OK and not hiding his feelings (like me).
I might try the school but I'm not sure they do that sort of thing. Everything seems to be geared towards older kids!

Do speak to GP. It probably will take ages to get an appointment via the NHS but it's a postcode lottery so you never know until you try. GP may also be able to signpost local 3rd sector counselling services, or you may have private counselling services in your area which will offer a sliding scale of fees. Perhaps you could ask about support for you too? Look after yourself

cruse.org.uk are worth having a look at if you think either of you might benefit specifically from bereavement support or counselling.

WhatWouldGenghisDo thank you, I'm coping ok actually. It was my ex partners Mum and brother who passed away so is hitting him way worse than me. My 9yo always acts as though he is fine and nothing is wrong but you never know what's going on underneath!
Someone else mentioned Cruse to me yesterday so will have a look x