So, it's a long story....
My parents have looked after my sisters children while she and her husband work for the last 13 years.
It has really upset me for a number of reasons over the years mainly because my parents, when they see my children have no energy or inclination to interact with them (my dad who is not a children lover anyway) is quite sarcastic with my 7 yr old - because at 75 he's had enough of them.
Admittedly I live 2 hours away but if I say to my mum, my little one has achieved x she then replies with an achievement of one of my sisters brood. They go to every event my sisters children are involved with yet never even call to chat with my children unless I call them.
On the rare occasion they come to stay, they treat our house like a hotel and my mum doesn't even think to offer to help, or offer to babysit. They just want to relax as they are worn out.
We have no other family or support.
All of my mothers friends bring it up with me (two at my wedding) that my sister should not rely on them to the extent she does.
Anyway - over the last year, I've decided to say something to my parents, which had gone down like a led ballon.
My dad has said they have helped me as much (they lent me 100k - I had to repay 125k due to interest he charged me !)
I'm so pissed off. It's not me I'm hurt for it's my children. My sister if financially far better off than me, they own their own home, we don't.
My sister and I rarely speak now as it's caused so much ill feeling.
Am I right to be annoyed at the situation?