Social services

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I'm 17 my boyfriend is 22 we have a child and I'm pregnant again can I move in with him and there be no problems?

And a few days ago you were asking if having 2 children under the age of 18 would get you "jumped up the housing list"

Curious

Well, you're certainly going to have a lot on your plate.

You were apparently living with him in a studio flat in February according to your previous thread. I'm calling a chinny reckon at this point

So, in summary: you are a seventeen year old gypsy bloke called Rich, with one child, who is pregnant. You live with your mum, claim benefits but have an older male partner who also earns money. You hope that the council will give you a house.

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I should think that yes, SS may well be interested in you.

Who is rich? 😂lol I don't know where i got tht from... I am 17 my boyfriend is 22 I want to move in with him in his studio flat ... I stay here (moving in I mean by claiming and doctors address here at this home) and we are gypsy and and I'm pregnant our first is 5months ... cleared??

But you said you were "a married gypsy"

Two kids in a studio flat?

Rich is a different user. That thread comes up in AS as the OP posted on it.

Yep two kids in a studio flat they will be interested in you

I think because you have previously been in care and in their eyes (pregnant with second child at seventeen) are making choices that could make you vulnerable they will likely be involved regardless of your situation. Were they involved after your first was born? If you are going between your mums and boyfriends what just now anyway what difference does it make who's house you are registers at? Is it to do with increasing benefits and housing benefit so you can get it for his house?

If you go to booking appointment with your mum and partner and show you are all united and you have support that will likely ease the concerns of the midwife.

My sister had her first pregnancy at fifteen and gave birth at sixteen. She fell pregnant at sixteen and had her second at seventeen. We were all concerned and worried but she had a lot of support. She also suffered mental health problems after her first but she managed great and surprised us all and has been an amazing mum. One of the best I know actually and now has her third at twenty five and has finished. She's still with the same partner ten years in. You can do it but it's hard hard work and you will face ALOT of prejudice and she does say now she wishes she'd lived her life a bit more and enjoyed her care free teen years before having kids.