My boys aged 8 and 6 stay with their dad, his girlfriend and her two sons (10 and 14) every other weekend.
My boys get on great with her boys.
Problem - Very recently my 6 year old has been coming out with quite a few sexual comments and phrases like "shagger" etc, he says he got the words from kids at school...
I let it go.
Tonight he jumped on top of my 8 year old and started bobbing up and down on him, I said "what are you doing??" and he replied "having sex". Remember - he's 6.
I got cross and asked where he'd heard and seen that and he said "at dads". I asked him if his dad had said it and he said it wasn't him, it was the 10 year old boy. My 8 year old then said the boy had done it to him too, said he was having sex and started jumping up and down on him.
What do I do? am I blowing it out of proportion? is this just kids 'experimenting'? due to past experiences as a child I'm extremely sensitive to this kind of thing so maybe I'm over-reacting?
Thing is, this woman strongly dislikes me! she hates me being anywhere near my ex for some mad reason and she has recently started firing the odd "snipe" my way when she see's me, if I mention this she will probably go nuts but I'm not sure I should let it lie...?
Please help...