Speak to him - tell him how you feel.
It took a good few months for my dh to fully grasp just how much my life had changed forever when ds1 was born. It wasn't the same seismic change for him: after 2 weeks pat leave he went back to work and carried on as normal.
Whereas I was stuck in a 2nd floor flat with no lift in the coldest winter on record wit a colicky baby who cried all day and slept in 90 min blocks all night interspersed with screaming. My nipples were in shreds, my figure was ruined forever (so I thought!) and I got pretty bad PND.
I had to really spell out to DH that when he came home from work the baby was his repoansobiliry for a few hours so I could have a bath, read a book or whatever. Be a normal human again for a wee while.
Formula feeding helped us a lot in the end because we could share the feeds.
Also it's worth noting that this really intense bit only lasts a short time whilst your baby is newborn. She/he will become more settled as she/he gets older. And will be less draining for you.
But in the meantime your DP needs to step up.
We had DS2 last year and DH asked me if it would be ok if he trained for a marathon in the months immediately after the baby's born which would have meant hours out in the evenings and st weekends, going for long runs when I was exhausted having had both kids all week.
I said - politely! - NO!
There'll be plenty of other years in his life to run marathons/play golf or whatever. Wen you have a young baby he really needs to focus on his family and take the load from you in his spare time.