really annoyed with bio dad........

[frangipan]

OK I'll make this as brief as possible.
DS1 aged 7.5

bio dad lives over an hour and 15 mins away.

Sees ds1 approx every other w'end

me and bio dad split before ds1 was born

bio dad cancels w/ends for leisure commitments sometimes-I have to tell ds1

bio dad doesn't ring between visits to see how ds is/ask about school etc etc just sends txt day before.

It will be 4 weeks between visits this time and no contact!!!!

DS1 doesn't want to call bio dad and says he doesn't want to go and see him because they don't have other children to play with and DS1 hates the motorway.

but he doesn't even call......is it me or doesn't he deserve ds!!!!!!!1

Doesn't deserve hom.
What a wanker.

Agree with Moondog. It can be worse though -my friend has a 6 year old, dad left when he was 4, he actually asked his mum what his dad's name was the other day as he can't remember there has been so little contact. He does say he loves him though. Hopefully he won't remember how useless his dad was in the future and will think of his step dad as his real dad........

thankyou...so glad I'm ot just being over sensitive.

Hi, this is so upsetting, its the same for me and dd.

DD is 2 and half. XP never contacts or ask s after her, yet makes a big deal out of seeing her then lets us down because hes hungover or other arrangments.

It so bad he didnt see dd over xmas as he was to busy getting drunk and with other women. Dd also had to go to A&E late one night and i warned XP as NHS said she'd need to go hosp but XP (who said hed drive us) let us down He was due to go to Carribean with his new women the following day so that took prioity.

When we split 6 months ago i thought telling dd wouldnt be a problem about when she could see her daddy untill a pattern started occuring and dd would be in tears when he wouldnt turn up.

So i dont tell her now, not till VERY last minute and i know XP is on his way!!

They really dont diserve our precious lo's. Try to keep ya chin up, dont let it get u down.

I know this probably sounds mean, but im not in a hurry for dd to see her dad anymore after him letting us down yet again today.

Goodluck with your xp and lo x

aww-petitfilou I'm sending a {{{{{{{bighug}}}}} for your friends LO.
Prettyfull-I feel exactly the same about actually not being bothered anymore whether bio dad sees DS or not for the same reasons as yourself.

And yes Bio dad also makes a song and dance about being able to see DS, everythings always so secretive also, Bio dad doesn't like to tell me what they've done etc etc.

I call him Bio dad as DS calls him by his first name as my DH has brought him up virtually since birth so he is 'daddy'!
I keep thinking about it all the time and get myself really het up about it! aaaarrrggghhhh