I only have 1 day off with the kids and by dinner time I'm begging my husband to come home, I try to do fun activities with them. At half 7 this morning I was trying to draw a road map and stick it together and play cars up and down it but my 2 year old just draws on carpet. At 9am I'm trying to get them dressed to go to park, telling him lets go down slide on swings making it fun but he refuses and runs off screaming I try distract with telly or toys but it doesn't work still at half 10 he was at bottom of stairs screaming if I went near him he would push me away and shut baby gate and just scream so I left him to it and made a den and read books with my 3 year old. Eventually he came out after me coming over lots and offering hugs and we had dinner under our den At dinner time I had to take my 3 yr old to pre school so I had to get him dressed which led in an all mighty kicking me and me grabbing him to get dressed. Brushing teeth is a battle, I have tried diff toothbrushes, an app on my phone, letting him do some and practising on his teddies, etc. He hadn't had a bath in a year just refuses, screamed, but loves swimming, tried everything going, he now decides he loves baths. He doesn't speak at all no mummy or daddy, don't know what I'm doing wrong. Picking my dd up from school get rain coat wellies on lets splash in puddles decides when we're down street he wants to go home I can't pick him up cozy he just flings around so I have to run back with him for buggy and run to school. I'm in tears on my only day off and end up sobbing in kitchen whilst letting him watch peppa coz its the only thing that makes him happy.