I was horrified to read recent top blog story on here from a mum who was in floods of tears after her autistic son was excluded from a local party. How can people get it so wrong in this day and age? My son had a classmate with autism and all the boys joined together for my sons birthday parties. I would never have dreamed of excluding "M". I fondly remember one party where "M" decided that the football the boys were playing with was his and much to parents amusement tried to stuff it up his jumper. The other boys knew "M" well and were fairly patient while we got them another ball. There was always a sense with the boys that they were protective of "M" as they grew up together.