Am fed up of it.
I went out and bought some running bottoms today and bumpd into Dh's female cousin in town. I told her what I had bought and during the conversation she said 'It's Ok to indulge yourself when it is someone elses money you are spending isn't it' and commented on the fact that she would not have time to go running as she works full-time. I came away feeling like crap.
I have 3 boys under 4 1/2, youngest 3 months old. Dh works full time in a 9-5 office job. I clean a house on a Friday afternoon when the oldrest 2 are at Nursery School.(Ok, I do this for me so I can justifiably 'indulge myself' on bits I need or shock horror want) We both sell lots and lots on e-bay and that takes 3 nights of the week...(Admittedly we do that together and DH does a lot of the work with that too)I don't see myself as a lay about but she obviously does.
When I had DS3 a Mother at school asked if I was having any more children and I said maybe and she said 'As long as they keep paying income support'.
Do these people think they are doing me a favour by trying to drag me down. Why can't we just support each other. And please tell me if I am being a paranoid freak.