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Beachpebble · 16/10/2016 20:05

So I've recently started teaching part time in my children's Primary school and while it's a blessing in many ways, it's definitely got its drawbacks (relationship with parents/friends as a parent and teacher, worries about your children and how you can approach this without being difficult, etc). I wondered what other people's experiences of this were and how they managed it or what they found hard (Not sure if this is right section to post it in?)

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TeacherBob · 22/10/2016 14:55

Ive just started teaching at my daughters school and I enjoy it.

I dont make friends with her friends parents and it probably makes a big difference that I am dad rather than mum. mum makes friends, I work

As long as you are professional, and dont discuss school stuff with parents, I dont see a problem

Beachpebble · 28/10/2016 20:05

Yes, I enjoy it too, TeacherBob and am of course professional.

I do find it hard though because I was friends with parents before I worked there and that's important to me.

Whilst I feel the need for professional distance with parents whose children I teach, I do value my persona as a parent as well and value the friendships I've established. But I feel that side, 'being a parent', is taking a back seat and can't coexist with being a teacher.

I'm probably over analysing and should try and relax about it more.

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personalisedmummy · 31/10/2016 21:39

I work at my children's school, I have a son and daughter there. It has loads of benefits but what I have found difficult is when my child has misbehaved and when he is not being academically challenged as he is a very intelligent child. I have compromised certain expectations because they are my colleagues and to avoid any uncomfortableness x

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Eolian · 31/10/2016 22:12

I teach one hour a week (MFL) at my ds's primary (including teaching my ds) and I do ad hoc supply teaching at my dd's secondary school (where dh is also deputy head). I haven't had any issues with it at all tbh.I suppose if I were a main primary teacher or more permanent at the secondary I might find it hard if I had behaviour problems with the child of a parent I knew, but as things stand, that's never arisen. I don't find the 'professional distance' thing bothers me.

busyrascal · 31/10/2016 22:21

Ooh watching with interest!

DD0314 · 16/07/2017 00:26

I worked at my daughters primary school until just before she left. It worked brilliant for us. I didn't have the worry of if she's ok at school and I could work longer hours because she was there. I was friends with a few of her friends mums but there was never any reason for it to be awkward. I think secondary school is a bit harder because of how different the dynamics are.

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