Hello! This is my first post so here goes..
Over the last few weeks my DS has become very good friends with a girl in his year 1 class. Last week she held his hand and kissed him on the cheek. My DS has been talking quite a bit about this girl, drawing pictures for her, playing at school with her and it all seemed rather sweet and innocent.
Yesterday at school pick up I mentioned to other mum (who has 5 other children and we think is possibly 'mormon') that my DS had bought her DD a little gift and other mum suggested we go round hers for a playdate after school today. We accepted and were looking forward to it.
Roll on this morning, drop DS off at school, at home at doorbell goes, other mum is there saying she doesn't feel comfortable with our children's relationship, thinks my son is 'sexualising' her DD, she only wants her DD to be in a relationship when her DD is getting married, he does not want my DS to give her DD the present, and she no longer wants my DS to be friends with her DD.
I am really stunned! I then had the pleasure of trying to explain to my DS that he can't hold the girl's hand any more and he can't really have playdates with her - he cried. Am heartbroken for him.
Has anyone else had a similar situation and how did you deal with it?