Just wondering if anyone has been through assisted conception and might know if we'd be able to get IVF for a 2nd child? I can't believe we are even thinking about it as our DD at 18 mo is a blessing but such a handful at the mo. But we do need to plan as if we want no 2 it's going to take some time. DD was in utero when my DH suffered a spinal cord injury and is now a paraplegic so we can't conceive again naturally. Would the NHS pay for assisted conception for an additional child, or will they only help couples who have no children (which I guess would be fair enough). Be interested to hear from anyone who might have expereince of this.