My 2nd baby is due anyday now and i am feeling hormonal, exhausted and pretty low. my 3 1/2 year old boy now has major tantrums. i am so scared how i will cope when i have a newborn to contend with as well. i know most toddlers go through this but i am really losing the plot with it. Usually they stem from me not accepting his demands and escalate to screaming, kicking, throwing stuff and hitting me. I feel a complete failure and dont know waht to do. I walk away, leave him, tried putting him on step to calm but when he is in a rage nothing works. finally when he comes out of it he is a differnt boy again. I have no real support in my area and my partner works long hrs.