My 5 wo has had a few days of sleeping beautifully...around 9/10pm, then one feed between 3 and 4.30 then straight back down until 6.30-7.30. I always need to change him at that night feed. But I swear he holds his poos until then. I have been changing him before thee feed so that hhe is lovely and sleepy ready to go back down. That's the theory....reality is...I change him, feed him, he's lovely and sleepy,then he poos. Right in the middle of the feed. Doesn't squirm or give a signal, just does it. So I.have to change him again. And then he's awake again. I swear, if I feed him first and then change him, he doesn't poo, but he's still awake. If I change him first, he does.
So the question is, do I.change him before, during or after the feed?? What do other people do??
Thanks!