I have almost 16 month dd and ds (3 in early Feb) - the last two days with the freezing fog in London were a nightmare as I couldn't 'walk them' in the park which is how I normally get them to calm down a bit. Dd has an ear infection so swimming is out. Any ideas? Ds is very into cooking but dd is too young for it so it is only really feasible when she's asleep. Just after ideas please. I went back to shouty mother yesterday and I haven't been like that for ages.